Manners



A person of wisdom and spirituality has very beautiful
manners that have grown from genuine respect and love
for the whole of humanity.

Manners in this sense have nothing to do with
culture or education:
it is simply a question of humility.

When we are at the receiving end of such manners,
we feel that some deeper part of us has been honoured.
In fact, none of us deserves anything less.

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Life is a New Biginning


Everything you've ever accomplished has been done
using just a small fraction of your capabilities.
What if you could make use of just a little bit more?

All that you've experienced has come from just a tiny corner in the universe
of your possibilities.
Imagine growing your awareness, your thinking and your actions beyond that corner.
If something seems impossible, that's because you're looking at it from a limited perspective.
Consider that there is so very much more to life than what you have thus far encountered.

What you have and what you know are extremely valuable.
Yet there also is infinitely more value to be found by exploring
the possibilities that exist beyond where you already are.

No matter how many sunrises you've experienced so far,
the next one brings with it a whole new world.
No matter how far you've already come, this moment now is a new beginning.

Life is constantly reinventing itself while at the same time holding true to
timeless values.
Allow the very best possibilities to take you ever higher.

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Father and Son



An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45 year old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window.


The Father asked his Son, "What is this?" The Son replied "It is a crow".


After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, "What is this?"


The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".


After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time, “What is this?"


At this time some expression of irritation was felt in the Son's tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. "It's a crow, a crow".


A little after, the Father again asked his Son t he 4th time, "What is this?"


This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times 'IT IS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?"


A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary


"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time h e asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child".


While the little child asked him 23 times "What is this", the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.


So, If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents. From today say this aloud, "I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me. They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm and heat to make me a person presentable in the society today".


Say a prayer to God, "I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave."


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Best Day of My Life


Today, when I awoke, I suddenly realized that this is the best day of my life, ever!
There were times when I wondered if I would make it to today; but I did!

And because I did I'm going to celebrate!  Today, I'm going to celebrate what an
 unbelievable life I have had so far: the accomplishments, the many blessings,
 and, yes, even the hardships because they have served to make me stronger.

I will go through this day with my head held high, and a happy heart.
I will marvel at God's seemingly simple gifts: the morning dew,
 the sun, the clouds, the trees, the flowers, the birds.
Today, none of these miraculous creations will escape my notice.

Today, I will share my excitement for life with other people.
I'll make someone smile.

I'll go out of my way to perform an unexpected act of kindness
for someone I don't even know.
Today, I'll give a sincere compliment to someone who seems down.
 I'll tell a child how special he/she is, and I'll tell someone I love
just how deeply I care for her and how much she means to me.

Today is the day I quit worrying about what I don't have and start
 being grateful for all the wonderful things God has already given me.
 I'll remember that to worry is just a waste of time because my faith in God
 ensures everything will be just fine.

And tonight, before I go to bed,
 I'll go outside and raise my eyes to the heavens.
 I will stand in awe at the beauty of the stars and the moon,
 and I will praise God for these magnificent treasures.

As the day ends and I lay my head down on my pillow,
I will thank the Almighty for the best day of my life.

And I will sleep the sleep of a contented child, excited with expectation
 because I know tomorrow is going to be the best day of my life, ever!

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"10 Steps To Success"



"10 Steps To Success"

1. Self-Belief:
Success is begins in the mind. One has to be a believer, first, if one wishes to be an achiever. Never under-estimate yourself. You have no idea how often can you surprise yourself. So to begin with, let's get in the belief, "I Can."

2. Clarity of Vision:
There is no point running around without knowing where one wants to reach. you must get your job cut out. Greatest achievers in the world have been visionaries. Know exactly what you are best at and give it your best shot.

3. Setting the Right Goals:
The goals should be realistic .The goals should be achievable ,and yet challenging enough - neither too easy nor too difficult -something in the middle.

4. Be focused:
If the sun's rays are focused on a piece of paper with a lens, the intensity of the concentrated energy burns the paper. Focus on your objective will enhance the intensity of the effects of your efforts.

5. No Short Cuts to Success:
There are no short cuts to success. Divide your overall goals into smaller targets. Divide your monthly plans into weekly and weekly plans into daily plans and see how simple can things be.

6. Take Risks:
Without any risk no progress is possible. Life comes to a stable standstill. People who take chances are the people who get ahead in life. The only way to reduce risk is to take risks.

7. Take the Initiative:
People who take the initiative make the most of their lives. Proactive people do not wait for success to happen; rather they make it happen. As they say, 'JUST DO IT'.

8. Never Hesitate to Struggle:
No one has ever climbed a mountain just by looking at it. Struggle, hard struggle, is a key to success.

9. Own Responsibility:
Failure to hit the bull's eye is never the fault of the target. People, who own complete responsibility of their lives, are the people who make the most of it.

10. Never Give Up:
Many people who failed in life, where those who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. Success demands extra-ordinary amount of perseverance. Never, never, give up.

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Toothpick City


It took Stan Munro (38) 6 years to build this toothpick city. He used 6 million toothpicks and 170 litres of glue. He can spend until 6 months to create a building and each of his creations is built to 1:164 scale. Stan works at the Museum of Science and Technology in Syracuse, New York (USA).





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We(O)man


1 . (Whatever)
Men: What should we have for dinner?
Women: Whatever..
Men: Why don't we have Mexican?
Women: No not Mexican, the last time I got pimples on my face
Men: Alright, why don't we have Szechwan cuisine
Women: Yesterday we ate Szechwan , today too?
Men: Hmm..... I suggest we have seafood
Women: Seafood is not good, I got diarrhea
Men: Then what do you suggest?
Women : Whatever..

2. (Anything)
Men: So what should we do now?
Women: Anything
Men: How about watching a movie? It's been a long time
Women: Watching movie is no good, it's a waste of time
Men: How about we go for bowling, or some exercises?
Women: Exercise on such a hot day?
Men: Then find a cafe and have a drink
Women: I am off caffeine
Men: Then what do you suggest?

Women: Anything
 
3. (You decide)
Men: Then do we just go home?
Women: You decide
Men: Let's take the bus, I will accompany you
Women: The bus is dirty and crowded.
Men: OK; we will take a cab
Women: Not worth it... For such a short distance
Men: All right, then we can walk. We can enjoy the weather
Women: I am hungry, can't walk.
Men: Then what do you suggest?
Women: You decide
Men: Let's have dinner first?
Women: Whatever...
Men: What shall we eat?
Women: Anything..


4. (ANYTIME.)..
Men: At what time do I have to call you?
Women: Any time as u wish
Men: But last time when I call u in the morning u didn't pick up?
Women: I was sleeping.
Men: OK; when I try to call you around 11 am u didn't pick up?
Women: I was shopping with my mother
Men: So, when I try to call you around 2-3 u didn't pick up?
Women: I was tired and relaxing.
Men: Then what about 5 PM?
Women: I was watching a cartoon.
Men: So, then why didn't you pick u phone in the night?
Women: I was studying
Men: Ok then tell me which time is the most convenience time for you to talk.
Women:
Anytime.

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Creative Energy


Worry is a misuse of your amazing creative energy. Think of
What would happen if instead of wasting it on worry, you
Used all that creative energy to imagine positive outcomes
In your life.

There is no limit to what you can imagine, and there are no
Restrictions on the kinds of things you can imagine. Your
Imagination is filled with precisely the things you choose
To imagine.

If you have nothing better to imagine, it can be much too
Easy to imagine all sorts of disastrous scenarios. But it
Doesn't have to be that way.

With just a little bit of initiative you can plant positive
And empowering seeds in your imagination. And in the fertile
Realm of your powerful imagination, those seeds will grow
Ever stronger in their beneficial influence.

Even a negative experience can set off a positive chain of
Thoughts in your imagination, when you so choose. It's
Really just as easy and realistic to imagine solving a
Problem as it is to worry about being overwhelmed by that
Problem.

When you feel worry coming on, always remember that you have
Another choice. As long as you're imagining elaborate
Scenarios, you might as well imagine the very best.

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Women's Expressions........ NICE



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Love Quotes


People love others not for who they are,
but for how they make them feel....Irwin Federman.


Love is like pi -- natural, irrational,
and very important....Lisa Hoffman.


Dance like no one's watching,
love like you'll never be hurt,
sing like no one's listening,
live like it's heaven on earth....William Purky.


I love you, not for what you are,
but for what I am when I am with you....Roy Croft.


Love is not a matter of counting the years --
it's making the years count....Wolfman Jack Smith.


Love creates an "us" without
destroying a "me"....Unknown.


True love stories never have endings....Unknown.


We waste time looking for the perfect lover,
instead of creating the perfect love....Tom Robbins.


Gravitation is not responsible for
people falling in love....Albert Einstein.


Immature love says: "I love you because I need you."
Mature love says: "I need you because I love you."....Erich Fromm.




The first duty of love is to listen....Paul Tillich.


Where there is great love there are
always miracles....Willa Cather.




Who travels for love finds a thousand
miles not longer than one....Japanese Proverb.




I love you, not because you are perfect,
But because you are so perfect for me....Unknown.


Couples who love each other tell each other
a thousand things without talking....Chinese Proverb.




Where there is love there is life....Mahatma Gandhi.


She who has never loved,
has never lived....J. Gay.


There is only one happiness in life,
to love and be loved....George Sands.


Love, you know, seeks to make happy
rather than to be happy....Ralph Connor.


Love is a verb. We can't say it enough. Love must not
only be spoken, but must also be shown. The beginning of
love is God. He showed His love in the most sacrificial of
ways so we could know our incredible value to Him. The price
of our adoption was the emptying of heaven of its greatest
treasure, God the Son, who is our Savior....Phil Ware.


Love is the triumph of imagination
over intelligence....H.L. Mencken.




Once you have learned to love,
You will have learned to live....Unknown.


Love is that condition in which the
happiness of another person is essential to your own.     Heinlein, Robert

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75 questions to ask yourself..!



An old proverb says, “He that cannot ask cannot live”. If you want answers you have to ask questions. These are 75 questions you should ask yourself and try to answer. You can ask yourself these questions right now and over the course of your life.


1. Why not me?
2. Am I nice?
3. Am I doing what I really want to do?
4. What am I grateful for?
5. What’s missing in my life?
6. Am I honest?
7. Do I listen to others?
8. Do I work hard?
9. Do I help others?
10. What do I need to change about myself?
11. Have I hurt others?
12. Do I complain?
13. What’s next for me?
14. Do I have fun?
15. Have I seized opportunities?
16. Do I care about others?
17. Do I spend enough time with my family?
18. Am I open-minded?
19. Have I seen enough of the world?
20. Do I judge others?
21. Do I take risks?
22. What is my purpose?
23. What is my biggest fear?
24. How can I conquer that fear?
25. Do I thank people enough?
26. Am I successful?
27. What am I ashamed of?
28. Do I annoy others?
29. What are my dreams?
30. Am I positive?
31. Am I negative?
32. Is there an afterlife?
33. Does everything happen for a reason?
34. What can I do to change the world?
35. What is the most foolish thing I’ve ever done?
36. Am I cheap?
37. Am I greedy?
38. Who do I love?
39. Who do I want to meet?
40. Where do I want to go?
41. What am I most proud of?
42. Do I care what others think about me?
43. What are my talents?
44. Do I utilize those talents?
45. What makes me happy?
46. What makes me sad?
47. What makes me angry?
48. Am I satisfied with my appearance?
49. Am I healthy?
50. What was the toughest time in my life?
51. What was the easiest time in my life?
52. Am I selfish?
53. What was the craziest thing I did?
54. What is the craziest thing I want to do?
55. Do I procrastinate?
56. What is my greatest regret?
57. What has had the greatest impact on my life?
58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life?
59. Do I stand up for myself?
60. Have I settled for mediocrity?
61. Do I hold grudges?
62. Do I read enough?
63. Do I listen to my heart?
64. Do I donate enough to the less fortunate?
65. Do I pray only when I want something?
66. Do I constantly dwell on the past?
67. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me?
68. Do I forgive myself?
69. When I help someone do I think “What’s in it for me”?
70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me?
71. Do I smile more than I frown?
72. Do I surround myself with good people?
73. Do I take time out for myself?
74. Do I ask enough questions?
75. What other questions do I have?

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Just How Massive is Google, Anyway?



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How To Succeed


Don't talk negatively about people behind their backs. If you gossip, people won't confide in you.
Mind your own business.
Try to work for someone who'll challenge your powers. You'll learn more in a year than 4 years of college.
Successful bosses have good communication skills.
They learn from people, including their employees.
Work in such a way that makes your boss look good.
It's not flattery On downsizing, the first to go are those with few friends.
Bosses prefer competent people whom they respect.
Dress for the job you want, not the one you have.
Let your dress reflect professionalism.
Workout to get in good physical shape.
Unless exceptionally skilled, the unhealthy are at a comparative disadvantage.
Personal integrity is crucial.
Tell nothing but the truth.
Bosses can forgive mistakes but if you lie, you're gone
Be on time. Try to arrive few minutes early. It saves you from stress. You'll be much relaxed & work better Strive your best to keep a deadline.
If you cannot meet it, then apologize & ask for an extension
Don't take things personally. If some people are unhappy with you, it's their problem. But always strive to give your best. If you must correct someone, don't get personal about it. Do it never in front of others
Spend some time alone everyday. What's the mission of my life? What do I want to be? And how to go about it. As you move along Plan A of your career, maintain a Plan B as well — an alternative course to rely
Always remember that the secret of success is passion.


Always think big. Spread love & joy. You'll have blissful years ahead

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Shanghai Project - Vision 2020


With over 20 million people in its extended metropolitan area, Shanghai is China’s most populated city. With an area of nearly 5,300 km2  (2,046 sq mi), it is also one of the world’s largest urban areas - and it’s growing fast. On the third floor of the Shanghai Urban Planning Museum, there is what probably is the world’s largest scale model of a city. The room-sized model of central Shanghai in 2020, as envisioned by the urban planners, fills an area larger than 100 square meters.







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THE BENEFITS OF RAW HONEY



Honey in its natural raw state contains 2 predominant natural sugars (Fructose and Glucose) 11 enzymes, 14 minerals, 21 amino acids, all the vitamins that nutritionists consider necessary for health A,D,K, Rutin, Nicotinic acid, B vitamins, Thiamine, Riboflavin, Niacin, Pantothenic acid, Pyridoxine and Biotin as well as Ascorbid Acid (Vit. C.).

HONEY PROCESSING

Most honey sold today has been commercially processed, resulting in enzymes (which help digestion) and vitamins, being destroyed and protein (pollen) being removed. This processing involves heating and filtering through a cloth or fine filter paper. The end product will remain in a liquid state for a long period of time. When it finally starts to granulate, crystals will begin to form at the bottom of the jar, moving upwards (a sure sign of a refined and processed product, despite the label “Pure” Honey).

WHAT CAN RAW HONEY DO FOR YOU?

Raw Honey was and still is credited with marvelous curative powers. A whole book could be written on all the medicinal uses of honey, from thousands of years of folk medicine to the scientific of the present time.

In addition to its age-retarding properties raw honey has been proven to be from beneficial to extraordinary effective in the following:

* As honey is a pre-digested food (a process done by the bees) it enters the blood stream directly producing energy quickly, unlike refined sugar which has to be digested.

* Proline, an amino acid in Raw honey is the primary component in collagen. Collagen is the main structure in bones. (Proverbs 16.24—health to the bones) Calcium is also found in two forms in Raw Honey.

* Increases Haemoglobin count and can prevent or cure Anaemia. It is rich in iron and copper.

* Is an excellent mild laxative, especially recommended as such for infants and children.

* Raw Honey will prevent and even cure Botulism Poisoning, because it contains an enzyme called Glucose Oxidase, (this enzyme is easily destroyed with heat). Botulism spores can only develop in the intestines of infants when chronically constipated.

* It has been shown to be useful in Rheumatic and Arthritic cinditions, especially in combination with Apple Cider Vinegar (Dr D.C. Jarvis).

* It has been used successful in the treatment of liver and kidney disorders, diseases of the respiratory and digestive tracts, weak heart action, infectious diseases, colds, insomnia, poor circulation, and bad complexion.

* It is not mere theory, but has been proved that bacteria cannot live in the presence of raw honey, for the reason that raw honey is an excellent source of potassium. The potassium draws from the bacteria the moisture which is essential to the very existence. A bacteriologist who did not believe this, after a series of tests discovered to his amazement that the disease germs he tested (typhoid, Bronco-pneumonia and Dysentery producing germs) were all killed off in the presence of raw honey.

* In this book Folk Medicine, Dr Jarvis an ear, nose and throat specialist reveals some startling facts about raw honey and honeycomb. He says the honeycomb is excellent for the treating of stuffy nose, nasal sinusitis and hay-fever. He always says that raw honey can produce healing for skin burns and is essential in the diet of children because it provides the composite of minerals needed for the growing body ( iron, copper, manganese, silica, chlorine, potassium, sodium, phosphorous, aluminium, magnesium, zinc, lead and sulphor ).

* Probably the most beneficial effect of pollen (contained in raw unfiltered honey) is that, taken internally it quickly produces the same anti-putrefactive effect as lactic foods and thus contributes to a healthy digestive system and good assimilation of nutrients absolute prerequisites for good health and long life.

Eating pollen rich raw honey causes rapid combustion, consuming fats which speed up the burning of fat, and continues through the bloodstream at a trickle stimulating the heart without harmful side effects.


Remind that every second we are getting closer to Aakhira....


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Try This


Can you read this
in first attempt????



Not possible to read anything? then follow the guidelines given below ....


Close your eyes almost 90% so that you can actually read it,
Its really superb!!!!



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THE STORY OF LIFE ....??


Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbor, coworker, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger) but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
 
And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.
 
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.
 
The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience help to create who you become.
 
Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.
 
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
 
Make every day count! Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before,and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love,break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don’t believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you.
 
You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets
 
*MOST IMPORTANTLY!*
If you LOVE someone tell him or her, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store!

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GOD


GOD knows how hard you have tried.
When you've cried so long your
Heart is in anguish,
GOD has counted your tears.

If you feel that your life is on hold
And time has passed you by,
GOD is waiting for you.

When nothing makes sense and you
Are confused or frustrated,
GOD has the answer.

If suddenly your outlook is brighter
And you find traces of hope,
GOD has whispered to you.

When things are going well and you
Have much to be thankful for,
GOD has blessed you.

When something joyful happens
And you are filled with awe,
GOD has smiled upon you.

Remember that wherever you are or
Whatever you are feeling,
GOD knows!

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THE CHILD WHO DOESN'T CONCENTRATE


THE CHILD WHO DOESN'T
CONCENTRATE

By Garry Cleveland Myers, Ph.D.

Many parents want to know how to get their child to concentrate.  They observe that he does not keep his attention  at a stretch on what he is supposed to be learning from books.
Roughly, there are two  types of children who don't concentrate: one type whose attention flits from one thing to another; the other who daydreams about one thing for a long period at a stretch, partly or entirely unaware of what others are saying and doing in his presence, or of what he is supposed to be attending to.  The latter type of child may really be exercising very high concentration but not on the job immediately at hand.
Although in this latter group are many of the geniuses in art, literature, invention and the like, there also are many more who never get very far.  For practical purposes, we want the child to learn to center his undivided attention on the mental task at hand.  Then if he has ability to daydream for  long stretches of time about one thing, he is the very child who should profit most from good habits of centering his attention on this mental task at hand.

Self-discipline in Concentration
A person in the upper grades, high school or college might be induced to discipline himself to pay attention to what is said in class and to what he is studying or reading, through continued effort at pulling himself back when be finds himself woolgathering.  At such times he can improve at concentration.  One way for him to arrive at such improvement is to check on himself from time to time to see how much he can reproduce the essence of what was said in his presence or of what he just read.  But the student must want to effect this discipline on himself.  We can't impose it on him by rebuking him for inattention or charging him with laziness.  We might, however, win him to want to discipline himself by showing him when he's ready for such help how he can get better results and more satisfaction in less time.

We Often Discourage Concentration
Through our very zeal to cultivate good concentration habits in the child at home or school, we often do just the opposite.  We render the child more scatter-brained or more prone to daydream.  We do it by hounding him, expressing annoyance over his lack of concentration and eternally exhorting him "to pay attention" as a matter of duty.  Continually we tell him he would learn better and get on better at school if only he would try harder.  Now and then he may really resolve to do his best.  But with so many failures facing him, he may soon grow discouraged, when his old habits of escape through thinking of something else assert themselves.  Before he knows it, he's moving in the same old rut.  Then our old habits go to work, causing us to harp on his being lazy, not trying, and "if only you would pay attention." We may have used this way toward him for years while he also has been a school laggard during the same period.
Unfortunately, many a teacher will inform the parent that the child is inattentive at school, assuming that the parent should scold or punish the child at home for such, and usually the parent does just this.  How absurd!

What We Can Do
Now that we have seen what we parents and teachers should not do with the child who doesn't concentrate, let us see what we can really do for him.  Our main objective should be to find a way to help this child gain more successes at his books in scores and hundreds of situations.
1.First we should have his vision and hearing checked by a specialist and corrected if at all possible; and make sure he has no other physical hin-drances to learning that can be remedied.  If such corrections can't be made, we need to take these handicaps into account.
2.We should find out, through close cooperation with the school, or in some cases with a learning specialist, just where the child's learning troubles are and how we might help him in definite ways to get better results from his learning efforts.  Sometimes he should have a tutor, if possible.
3.He may naturally be a slow learner.In all school subjects he may be dull; or he may have difficulty in only one or  two such subjects.  In either event, in order for him to enjoy more learning successes he will have to work only at what is easy enough for him to achieve, no matter  how easy such work must be or at what grade level it usually is learned.  For example, the child of the fifth grade, who is a very poor reader, may need to practice reading on material no harder than a second or third grade level.  He must not feel ashamed of doing such simple, easy ,work. He must be able to save face.  As you can see, a child can feel more comfortable when he works at such easy material at home than when he does the same at school, if he doesn't have a brother, sister or play-mate who "rubs it in." In addition, he must feel that what he learns is worth learning.  The more interesting this easy material can be, the better, as the interest tends to increase with success.  Therefore success makes it easier for him to pay attention to concentrate  and consequently to win more success and generate more interest, attention and effort.  He will try hardest when he succeeds most.  We want to help him enjoy more successes and celebrate these successes with him.  This is true in relation to any school subject.
4.Some bright children drift into habits of inattentiveness and daydreaming at school because they are bored with what seems too easy for them.  By thus ignoring what is being said and done for some hours or days, the child may fail to gain some skills and knowledge he really needs to learn in order to succeed in later lessons.  Therefore this bright child may actually face the trouble eventually which faces the duller child already described. The wise teacher gives this brighter child to do at school more that challenges his interest and ability.  The parents should do likewise at home.
5.At home we parents can cultivate some good habits of concentration which should carry over to school by paying strict attention when the child talks to us and by being careful always to have his undivided attention before uttering a request or a command.  Sometimes it will be well to have him repeat the request or command immediately.  Also we need to train the child at home to do his regular chores promptly.  Furthermore, we prevent daydreaming as we prevent or reduce dawdling, since daydreaming is the handmaid of dawdling.

Reading Usually Chief Problem
More often than not, it is in reading where the child lags most and, therefore, concentrates least.  The longer the child is poor at reading in school, the more he is handicapped in all his schoolwork.  See how his difficulties mount later in such subjects as history, literature and science.

Some Requirements of the Child
Although you should not command the school-child to pay attention, you should, as a rule, require him to be home and in the house on nights before school.  As soon as he receives homework assignments you should require him each evening to go at them at a regular time and place, and see that no one interrupts him then.  When you try to help the child at books, be sure you are very calm and patient.  The moment you feel the least bit vexed at him then, you are unfit to be in his presence.  Go away from him and let him alone.

Concentration by Baby and Young Child
Begin with the baby to cultivate concentration habits in him.  Having established necessary routines in a serene, happy family atmosphere of affection, do your best to prevent in him too great excitement and fatigue.  The jittery, nervous child may not easily concentrate since he is inclined to rush from one interest or activity to another.  Some regular quiet periods daily may be good for him.
Provide him with proper playthings.  If, however, he has too many at a time, he may become scatterbrained, flitting from one toy to another.  Encourage and direct him, as he develops, in creative play, at construction with blocks and making things with his hands.  So far as reasonably possible, avoid diverting him from a play activity he is absorbed in.  Encourage his concentrated effort by your warm appreciation of his achievements as he is able to undertake play projects which require continuous activity for several minutes or hours, even days.  Encourage him to finish this undertaking.  Try to keep him from beginning many such jobs which you are sure he won't finish.
Read to the young child daily from the time he will look at the illustrations of a nursery rhyme or story for a minute or less at a stretch.  There is no better way to cultivate concentration of the kind the child will find useful later at school.  But don't neglect folklore and fairy tales.  True, some children who have read or listened to many fairy tales may have their creative imagination so stimulated as to be particularly prone to engage in daydreaming.  This should not happen, however, if they make things with their hands and play freely with others of their age.
The baby or young child, of course, has a short span of attention.  Naturally his attention shifts rapidly from one thing to another.  But his ability to concentrate develops faster than most persons suppose.  You have seen even a four- or five-year-old absorbed in building something of his fancy out of blocks for many minutes at a stretch.  The same child, having been read to daily over several years, may listen raptly to one story after another for an hour or more continuously.  Most children of this age, however, do well to concentrate for as many as ten or fifteen consecutive minutes.
Even the child in the grades, when helped at home, may learn better habits of concentration if kept at a learning task for no more than ten or fifteen minutes without a pause.  So also the high school or college student might avoid habits of woolgathering by setting himself to vigorous efforts for only half an hour and then relaxing before going at his lesson for another such period.



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Cool One Liners..


It's funny when people discuss LOVE MARRIAGE vs ARRANGED.
It's like asking someone, if suicide is better or being murdered


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A person who surrenders when he's WRONG, is HONEST.
A person who SURRENDERS when not SURE, is WISE..
A person who surrenders even if he's RIGHT,

is a HUSBAND.!


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They say that when a man holds a woman's hand before marriage, it is love;
after marriage it is self-defense


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It takes thousand workers 2 build a castle

Million soldiers 2 protect a country


BUT Just ONE woman 2 make a Happy and clean HOME!

Let's Thank
......

KAAMWALI


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After Finishing MBBS,
Dr. Munna Starts his practice.
He Chcked 1st patient eyes,
tongue & ears by TORCh & finally said
BOLE TO..........
TORCH THEEEEK HAI




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Quiet minds


When troubles come your way,
And life seems all uphill,
Find a quiet corner,
Take a rest, and just be still.

The future may look bleak;
You can see no end in sight;
God will find you in that corner
And help you put things right.

Quiet minds can hear more clearly
The voice that speaks within,
So heed His words of wisdom,
Then the healing will begin.

You'll find your mind is calmer;
Your tensions start to ease:
 God has taken all your worries
And filled your heart with peace.

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Thought and Action


Thought makes things possible.
Action makes them real.

Thought prepares the way for achievement.
Action assembles the achievement together.

Thought gives action a purpose and a plan.
Action gives thought substance and commitment.

Action creates new energy.
Thought harnesses and directs
that energy to create meaningful results.

Thought can give birth to endless worlds
filled with wonder and beauty.
Action expresses that beauty right here and now.

Thought and action are stunningly powerful forces.
Combine them together,
directed toward a common purpose,
and truly anything can happen.
~ Ralph Martson

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The Echo of Life


A man and his son were walking in the forest.
Suddenly the boy trips and feeling a sharp pain he screams, Ahhhh!

Surprised, he hears a voice coming from the mountain, Ahhhh!

Filled with curiosity, he screams: Who are you? , but the only answer he receives is: Who are you?
This makes him angry, so he screams: You are a coward! , and the voice answers: You are a coward!

He looks at his father, asking, Dad, what is going on?

Son,the man replies, Pay attention!

Then he screams, I admire you!
The voice answers: I admire you!

The father shouts, You are wonderful! and the voice answers: You are wonderful!

Then the father explains, People call this ECHO, but truly it is LIFE!

Life always gives you back what you give out.
Life is a mirror of your actions.

If you want more love, give more love!

If you want more kindness, give more kindness!

If you want understanding and respect, give understanding and respect!

If you want people to be patient and respectful to you, give patience and respect!

This rule of nature applies to every aspect of our lives.

Life always gives you back what you give out.

Your life is not a coincidence, but a mirror of your own doings.

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